Have you met your fate?
Filed in: Life Log — September 18th, 2007
Last Sunday, I attended another friend’s wedding dinner. It has been a long time since the last time I met my friend. He gained weight but filled with happiness (is gaining weight a problem of guys about 30s?).
At age of 27, I started to discover that more and more of my friends are married or will be married soon. I have another 2 friends who are getting married in the next few months.
Most of my friends found their other half, but there are still friends who are single like me. Some of them have never even dated before.
My mom never worries about me. As she said, “It’s all FATE. When it comes, it will come.” I understand why she said so, because she herself met my dad in the public bus in Taiwan. My mom is a Taiwanese and she married to my dad to Malaysia.
I am not sure if I will have the strong fate as my parents, but I do not worry much about it. I believe she is somewhere there and we will somehow meet someday.
How did you meet you other half?
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September 18th, 2007 at 3:31 pm
heh.. met my wife in McDonalds. I was a new crew, she was my trainer. Fight like cats and dogs during the first year. Mana tau ada jodoh? Thirteen years and 2 kids later, we’re still going to McDonald’s…
September 18th, 2007 at 3:34 pm
in a private game server which I hosted back that time @@
We were just in-game mates and later we chat more on personal feelings rather than game stuff…and we lives in the same city..
fire sparkled..and we are now together for almost 2 years. ^^
I believe you can find yours one day ^^
September 18th, 2007 at 4:09 pm
actualli bachelor is good,
but when we meet our fate,
married is better…hehehaha
liew,good luck
September 18th, 2007 at 4:53 pm
You are only 27! Why worry? I prefer guys to get married after 35, more mature, more money too.
September 18th, 2007 at 4:56 pm
LOL, Liew, take the bus more often!!!!
I met my husband when he was a door-to-door insurance salesman.
September 18th, 2007 at 5:29 pm
@lilian: I took many busses and trains in the past years, never meet anyone too.
September 18th, 2007 at 5:36 pm
Meet new people and flirt a lil bit does help
September 18th, 2007 at 5:39 pm
Don’t worry, I did not appear at your blog right after I saw 5xmom’s posting lah! *don’t run away first*
I just came to tell you hor, my partner and I hooked up via the internet.
Since you’re a one of Malaysia’s top blogger with so many Internet leng lui contacts…sigh..sup sup sui to find one ler
September 18th, 2007 at 7:26 pm
I meet my half already. And as for you… Honestly la… Nowadays I live a life with computer and college also, I seldom go and social with new people too, so I got no idea how to woo girl liaw… Not to mention… Fate?!?!?!?!?!?
September 18th, 2007 at 7:37 pm
LOL, Liew, you check yr trackback. I know got 3 blogs helping to pimp for you.
September 18th, 2007 at 7:58 pm
Nevermind, all you need is some help. You so busy, sure got time to pak toh or not??
CLICK HERE
September 18th, 2007 at 9:38 pm
Mine on public bus too, LcF. Believe it or not?
September 18th, 2007 at 9:50 pm
i believe in ‘fate’ and it will happen when you least expected it. I’m sure yours is out there…
oh yes, how about looking in feng shui? anyone believe that? i think it’s real, i met my ‘fate’ when i twisted my bedroom feng shui…
September 18th, 2007 at 9:52 pm
haiya… in front of the computer also can find wan mar…
i have a friend who found her husband over the ‘Net, got married, and now happily together with a daughter… fate?
September 18th, 2007 at 10:49 pm
可能缘分还没到, 缘分要来谁也避不了.
September 18th, 2007 at 11:04 pm
THEORY OF CHANGE
When i learnt thermodynamic in the UNI time, one the rule said that everything will aproach STABIL state unless INTERNAL or EXTERNAL input break the STBIL stage…
If you don’t change, then everything will not change…
If you continue sit in front of the square box without making any change, you can expect any change to yourself.
Please initiate some change…
September 19th, 2007 at 2:07 am
LOL, i love webworm comments. very true indeed…
September 19th, 2007 at 2:58 am
I met at University, we were at the same students’ club. Maybe you should start going back to Uni?
Start an MBA, just an idea…
September 19th, 2007 at 5:50 am
want love? IRC. waahahaha. or better yet friendster. can preview lagi.
September 19th, 2007 at 12:10 pm
JennyHow,
Thanks for agreement…:)
You have a great blog…congrat…
September 19th, 2007 at 1:55 pm
My hubby and I first met on a blind date! One week after that, we started to ‘pak toh’. It’s that simple
Once a man are in a happy relationship, he automatically gains weight. Nothing to do with age, haha!
September 20th, 2007 at 11:48 am
I can’t help but comment on how understanding your mother is! But I think she’s right - when it’s the right time, you’ll meet her.
September 20th, 2007 at 1:25 pm
haih, fate and love…my ‘favourite’ subject!
i can understand the loneliness and the despair cos i feel the same way sometimes (still do) especially when you have peer/parents pressure.
i remember telling a friend not too long ago that when i do meet my ‘fate’ one day, i will ask him ‘where the hell have you been all this while?!’
but seriously, its true that these things, cant force one. one day, some day, in the weirdest ways when you least expect it, you will meet someone who is your ‘the one’.
i know its easier said than done. but have faith.
meanwhile, find yourself, know what and who you are, be more open to others, talk to ppl, get out more… and oh yes, apply ‘law of attraction’!
good luck! half the fun is the journey, rather than the destination!